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Its been a couple days since I last wrote. I really have to make a genuine concerted effort to blog, even just a little, before this new endeavor falls by the way side.
I always think of things I'd like to write about on the car ride into the office, or on the way home, but I guess those thoughts exist in time, and now is not the time I feel like writing about them.
I attach thie picture to talk about something that I recently learned -- my best friend's half-brother is gay. He's in high school and I believe he's a senior this year. Specifically, if you care to understand the thought process for this entry, its because I was looking at the pictures on www.lastnightsparty.com - there are a lot of androgynous people on there including, what I believe, are a lot of gay people. (The link is not work safe, so exercise caution and discretion when surfing that site).
Anyhow, the point of this entry is to gain a better understanding of how "one becomes gay." There is an abundance of evidence that indicates that one is "born gay" but perhaps in my naivete, it was always my understanding that one "turns gay." Im not looking for any particular answers here - just a dialogue.
If one is always gay (i.e., born gay) then when does he (and I mean he in this case) pick up very sterotypical "gay qualities" like the lisp?
I really do not mean to offend ANYONE by this post (in fact, as I'm writing this, Im considering deleting it). I guess I am only seeking some answers or additional insight. If any of my readers can help, please steer me in the right direction.
Incidentally, the way we identified that my friend's half-brother was gay was through the myspace website. There was some discussion amongst his family that he may be gay. My friend did not know of the myspace website and I explained to him that he will likely be on there b/c of his age group (myspace is highly frequeted by 16-30 year olds). We found his profile and there were some highly provocative pictures on there with other men. At first his profile listed his sexual orientation as "no answer" and then later he listed himself as "gay." I recall my friend calling me from dinner announcing somthing like "the cat's out of the bag...check out ______'s myspace."
Thanks to those of you who have taken the time to read my blog. If you do visit, and dont mind doing so, please just leave a simple comment.
Thanks so much,
Craig Kaye
I always think of things I'd like to write about on the car ride into the office, or on the way home, but I guess those thoughts exist in time, and now is not the time I feel like writing about them.
I attach thie picture to talk about something that I recently learned -- my best friend's half-brother is gay. He's in high school and I believe he's a senior this year. Specifically, if you care to understand the thought process for this entry, its because I was looking at the pictures on www.lastnightsparty.com - there are a lot of androgynous people on there including, what I believe, are a lot of gay people. (The link is not work safe, so exercise caution and discretion when surfing that site).
Anyhow, the point of this entry is to gain a better understanding of how "one becomes gay." There is an abundance of evidence that indicates that one is "born gay" but perhaps in my naivete, it was always my understanding that one "turns gay." Im not looking for any particular answers here - just a dialogue.
If one is always gay (i.e., born gay) then when does he (and I mean he in this case) pick up very sterotypical "gay qualities" like the lisp?
I really do not mean to offend ANYONE by this post (in fact, as I'm writing this, Im considering deleting it). I guess I am only seeking some answers or additional insight. If any of my readers can help, please steer me in the right direction.
Incidentally, the way we identified that my friend's half-brother was gay was through the myspace website. There was some discussion amongst his family that he may be gay. My friend did not know of the myspace website and I explained to him that he will likely be on there b/c of his age group (myspace is highly frequeted by 16-30 year olds). We found his profile and there were some highly provocative pictures on there with other men. At first his profile listed his sexual orientation as "no answer" and then later he listed himself as "gay." I recall my friend calling me from dinner announcing somthing like "the cat's out of the bag...check out ______'s myspace."
Thanks to those of you who have taken the time to read my blog. If you do visit, and dont mind doing so, please just leave a simple comment.
Thanks so much,
Craig Kaye
posted by craig kaye at 3:41 PM
7 Comments:
wow - i'm suprised that he came out when he was a senior in HS. I had a friend who struggled through HS (even had a string of girlfriends) and, after graduation, came out to his friends.
He said that, throughout high school, he was trying to "fit in", but after graduation (and moving to arizona), he didn't have to pretend anymore.
Lena - Thanks for the comments -- it was a surprise to me as well, but I was even more surprised when I learned that he has no less than 5 other gay friends in his grade. I guess its reassuring to see that schools are open/more welcome to "alternative lifestyles."
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